Joyce Bedford
Joyce Bedford

Hi there! I'm Joyce.

I love witty jokes, especially ones that combine humor with wisdom. I love to learn fascinating new things, especially valuable pieces of knowledge that make my life better. Knowledge is power!

I am the author of the book “The Ins and Outs of Human Sexuality”.

Front and back cover of book.

The book contains the following articles and many more (35 chapters in total).

My red-hot rules for sex in a relationship
My red-hot rules for sex in a relationship

My red-hot rules for sex in a relationship

Live life in the fast lane!

What women think of men that love blowjobs & cunnilingus
What women think of men that love blowjobs & cunnilingus

What women think of men that love blowjobs & cunnilingus

The differences between the men and women that like and dislike fellatio and cunnilingus.

How men become creepy by mistake
How men become creepy by mistake

How men become creepy by mistake

The reasons why women think that a “nice guy” is creepy.

Do women become more or LESS lustful when they orgasm before the man's climax?
Do women become more or LESS lustful when they orgasm before the man's climax?

Do women become more or LESS lustful when they orgasm before the man's climax?

Secrets of the order of orgasms.

Women are wild, men are tame, okay?
Women are wild, men are tame, okay?

Women are wild, men are tame, okay?

Women are wild at heart and do not want lovey-dovey male sexuality.

How to sexually dominate a woman correctly
How to sexually dominate a woman correctly

How to sexually dominate a woman correctly

Do it right, and she will love you. Do it wrong, and she will hate you. Very, very much.

Why women prefer gangsters over nice guys
Why women prefer gangsters over nice guys

Why women prefer gangsters over nice guys

How to convince women to choose you instead.

How to persuade your wife to be a hotwife – if you really must!
How to persuade your wife to be a hotwife – if you really must!

How to persuade your wife to be a hotwife – if you really must!

And how to make it enticing for her, and what the upsides and downsides are.


Humans are complicated and challenging and generally a gigantic pain in the ass, so I like to lighten up the discussions from time to time with a generous injection of comedy. Sometimes I am tempted by the Dark Side 🖤, and I cross over into black comedy and satire. You have been warned. 🤪

‘Hopscotch to oblivion’, by Andy Wright, 2003.

I know many things, because I read like crazy. I read a lot. Really a lot. I read books, articles, and scientific studies like a famished child discovering candy for the first time in her life. It is probably not healthy, but it has not killed me so far. I would be more concerned about my former coworkers that were convinced that I can read a 100-page report in 5 minutes.

Here are a few of my favorite quotations:

“Here's the thing. Superman and I have very different ideas about what it means to be a hero. He sees the good in everyone, and I see the truth.”
– Kara in the movie “Supergirl” (2026)

“You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.”
– Morpheus in “The Matrix” (1999)

“The strength of a mind can be measured by the amount of truth that it can endure, or more precisely, by the extent to which it requires that the truth be diluted, veiled, sweetened, muffled, or falsified.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche, philosopher (1886)

“Clowns to the left of me. Jokers to the right. Here I am, stuck in the middle with you.”
– A song by “Stealers Wheel” (1972)

Let's get this show on the road! You can purchase “The Ins and Outs of Human Sexuality” at Amazon. Alternatively, you can read a few of my articles directly on this website.