Women are wild, men are tame, okay?

You may have been taught (or trained to believe) that women need to feel emotionally connected or in love with a man in order to want to have sex with him. You may have heard the following saying:

“Women need to feel loved to have sex. Men need to have sex to feel loved.”

That is BS and lies on top of more BS. It is not even close to the truth.

The truth is vastly different than the stereotypes propagated by society. According to the stereotypes and misleading depictions in society, women are much more romantic than men. However, after a man learns the truth, he may insist that the stereotype is a reversal of the truth, and that in reality, men are more romantic than women.

I do not want to say that one gender is more romantic than the other, rather I describe it as follows: Men and women are differently romantic. Quite differently romantic.

Not only is romance different between the genders. Male sexuality and female sexuality are also quite different. Without the proper knowledge, men and women fail to bridge the gap between the genders.

If you intend to have successful sexual relationships in your life, including long-term relationships that do not end in separation or eventual failure of sexual activity after the honeymoon period, then it is absolutely vital that you do exactly as I say.

Even the teensiest tiniest deviation will trigger like a really, totally massive catastrophe of epic proportions, and you will drop dead within three seconds if you stop reading this information of vital importance. Your sex-life depends on your exact adherence to my wishes. I mean, my instructions.

So, let's do this. Hit me.

Yes, I want you to hit me. This way I will not feel bad when I hit you with the truth and reduce you to a blubbering blob of quivering flesh.

💔 Prepare to be heartbroken beyond belief

If you are a male reader, then unfortunately, I must be the messenger of bad news. Very bad news. This is going to hurt a lot of men. Major heartbreak. Teary eyes. Screaming at trees in the forest.

“Why?? Why?! Why must Mother Nature be such a cruel mistress?! What did we ever do to deserve such misery and suffering?! Why must it be so?!”

But please know that my goal is not to hurt you, but rather to give you the keys to success. Unfortunately, the keys that I am about to give you hurt like hell.

Prepare to suffer immeasurable pain alongside complete destruction of your child-like naivety and the folly of your youth. Please stop reading now if you have any pre-existing heart condition or hypertension.

🐶 Male puppy-love / infatuation

Many men are prone to falling in love at first sight. They imagine and plan their entire future with a woman that they just met a few hours ago.

All too often, the situation is even worse: The man has already fallen head-over-heels in love with a woman that he has not even met in real life. He has not even spoken with her on the telephone or by video-chat! He might not even know her surname or her age, but he is ready to marry her already.

She is probably not even single. He did not ask. There are a hundred questions that he should have asked before loving her, and he asked none of them.

On one hand, he is obsessed with her, and he cannot stop thinking about her, but on the other hand, he neglects opportunities to get to know her better. He fills in the blanks in his knowledge of her with random positive/optimistic information copied from his own personality and imagination.

His love for her is merely puppy-love, and she knows it. And what is puppy-love? It is the love from a boy, not a man. A woman wants a man and not a starry-eyed boy in the body of a man.

Nearly all women think that when a man falls in love with a woman before meeting her in real life, it is 🤮-worthy. Some women describe it in a nicer way. They say that it is “sweet”. Believe me when I say that you do NOT want to be a sweet man. “Sweet” is a codeword that means “no sex forever”.

A man is suffering from an infatuation when he has very strong feelings of puppy-love or attraction for a woman when these feelings are unreasonable, sudden, and ephemeral (short-lived).

If a woman makes the mistake of having sex with a man that has puppy-love for her, then the sex is likely to be soft cuddle-sex. Afterwards, the infatuated man will rate the cuddle-sex as wonderful, whereas the woman will rate it as unsatisfying, unfulfilling, weak, and/or boring. Or even worse, “sweet”.

👩‍👦 A man wanting a woman to love him like a son

Sometimes a man wants a girlfriend or wife to love him as if he is her son. He does not realize that he is doing this. He is confused. He is not clear in his mind about whether he wants a female partner or a substitute mother.