The Ins and Outs of Human Sexuality
by Joyce Z. Bedford
Book available in paperback and hardcover formats.
If you have ever wished that somebody would ruthlessly explain urges, arousal, attraction, desire, pleasure, and partner choice with honesty, science, a wicked sense of humor, and a generous sprinkling of the secret sauce that makes relationships buck like a wild stallion, then there is no need to save up for a time machine anymore. The book of your dreams has arrived! Who says wishful thinking never pays off?
You will surely not want to miss reading this remarkably direct and shameless explanation of the controversial twists and turns of human sexuality. In the minds of dozens of men, the author is the one that got away. Surprisingly, she expresses her willingness to explain exactly why and how she got away, so that her readers will have a much better chance of catching her next time and wearing out all of the equipment.
In this playfully witty book, the author blends psychology, science, lived experience, insider information, and her trademark brand of fearless curiosity to explore how people choose each other, what fuels desire, how to make the reactor explode on demand, what not to do, and why so many well-intentioned men and women end up confused by their own reactions, not to mention the inexplicable reactions of the opposite gender.
The author's mission is to help people understand the real behavioral patterns and the most effective methods so that they can luxuriate in success instead of repeating painful mistakes. This book will have you shaking your head in amazed realization and chuckling at the same time. You will be pleasantly shocked by the author's mischievous willingness to go all the way in revealing the quirks of her own gender.
With 35 chapters and over 50 full-color illustrations, this guide explores questions most people have but rarely voice, including:
- What do women think of men that love fellatio and cunnilingus?
- How do men accidentally send creepy signals to women?
- What kind of male dominance do women like and dislike?
- Can certain rules make a relationship thrilling?
- How wild are women, really?
- Who should finish first? The man or the woman?
- What emotions do alphas and betas trigger in women?
- Which do women love the most: A giver, taker, or receiver?
- Could it be true that women love a man that desires a harem?
- What mistakes do pick-up artists make?
- Why do men think that they should give women orgasms?
- How do people signal interest and desire?
- What makes somebody irresistibly compelling?
- What quietly turns attraction off?
- Why is female behavior so confusing and surprising?
- How and why do confidence, steadiness, and emotional clarity influence attraction far more than “niceness”?
- Why do some interactions feel electric, and others fall flat even with the same person?
- How does leadership, initiative, and responsiveness influence intimacy?
- Why do certain personality types and behaviors ignite stronger chemistry?
- How can long-term partners most effectively resolve their mismatching desires?
- What goes horribly wrong when a couple have a virtual interaction online even when it appears to go well?
- What is the difference between male jealousy and female jealousy?
- How could a man persuade his wife to be a hotwife?
- Why do so many people use the wrong way of handling a woman's tests?
- What happens when vibrators are used incorrectly?
Candid, insightful, and irresistibly readable, this book is for anybody that wants to understand how human sexuality truly works (as opposed to how people claim it works), and to use this understanding to replace frustration and setbacks with a gigantic turbocharged rocket full of the finest ultrapure lust-fuel.
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Product details
| Title of book: | The Ins and Outs of Human Sexuality |
| Author: | Joyce Z. Bedford |
| Language: | English |
| Number of pages: | 312 |
| Interior: | Printed in color |
| ISBN - paperback: | 979-8196933134 |
| ISBN - hardcover: | 979-8181461024 |
| Publication date: | June 10, 2026 |