How to persuade your wife to be a hotwife – if you really must!

I wrote this detailed guide specially for the men that have a cuckoldry kink/fetish. These men (“cucks”) experience great pleasure and sexual arousal when they watch their own wife get fucked by a “bull” (a strong virile masculine man). The wife in this arrangement is called a “hotwife”.

These husbands encounter much difficulty and a high rate of failure when they attempt to engage in their cuckoldry fetish in real life, because women normally dislike it. When a husband reveals his cuckoldry fetish to his wife, there is a high risk of causing her to lose respect for him, depending on how he presents his proposal. Most women do not want to be a hotwife (the wife of a cuckold) at all.

A common mistake is to find and use a webpage that sounds professional. For example, a husband may attempt to use a webpage that says something like this:

“Cuckoldry is an arrangement that provides a means to empower a hotwife and celebrate her sexual freedom and attractiveness in the modern age. The cuckoldry dynamic emphasizes a modern woman’s autonomy, and it grants her the ability to explore her sexuality while reinforcing trust and commitment in the relationship with her husband. Ultimately, cuckoldry is about mutual empowerment. The husband finds satisfying fulfillment in his support of his wife’s sexual autonomy and freedom and the deepening of their intimacy and trust.”

Some men get sucked in by webpages that sound like the above, because of the professional appearance and tone. Using those webpages is a mistake, because most wives are more skeptical about this topic, and they quickly recognize the “professional” webpage for what it truly is: Marketing spin/PR/BS.

Women are rarely fooled by slick marketing-speak about cuckoldry. Most women realize that it is like listening to an advertisement or a speech from a salesman or a politician, and they know that they should not trust it (or at least they are not convinced by it).

In this guide, I provide men with proper information about how to raise their chance of success when they attempt to persuade their wife to be a hotwife. To write this guide, I thought long and hard about what would make me more likely to agree to be a hotwife (including what would increase my enjoyment of it). I also interrogated my friends about what could possibly persuade them to be hotwives. This guide describes a whole bunch of things that make a cuckoldry deal more tempting and more enticing to women.

Ultimately, I would still not agree to be a hotwife (in my case), but occasionally a woman does agree to it, depending on her personality and options, especially if the terms of the arrangement are like what I describe here, and if she cannot find a better deal elsewhere.

I refuse to spew a bunch of pleasing lies/marketing about cuckoldry, therefore you will need to take the good with the bad. There is a whole bunch of stuff in this guide that you will like, and then there is also the truth included (the bad news), therefore you will not enjoy fully 100% of this information.

This is how it should be, because you deserve to know the full story – both the upsides and the downsides, not only the upsides. In the end, you can make your own decision about whether to attempt cuckoldry in real life.

This guide answers the following questions in detail:

• Should the bull be the same man every time? Or rotate between a few men? Or many different men?

• How often should the hotwife have sex with a bull? What are the ideal and maximum frequencies?

• How should the husband prepare the bull before sex?

• What precautions, safeguards, and rules are necessary?

• Is it good or bad to surprise the hotwife? How much should she know in advance of sex with a bull?

• Should the husband or the hotwife choose a bull or bulls? Or should it be a mutual decision made together? Should there be veto rights?

• Are hotwives more or less aroused when they see or do not see a photograph of the bull before the day of the sex?

• Should the bull and the hotwife have one dinner date together before having sex? If so, how exactly?

• What should a bull say and do when he meets the hotwife in-person for the first time?

• How does a bull accidentally ruin the excitement/attraction? What should he do and not do?

• How should foreplay with a bull be conducted? Is it different to foreplay with the husband?

• During the sex with the bull, where exactly should the husband place/position himself in order to maximize the hotwife’s arousal and enjoyment?

• How should the husband be careful about displays of his masochism? What is safe and unsafe?

• During sex, what if the hotwife boasts about how much better the bull is?

• Does the success rate become better or worse if the husband masturbates while watching his wife and the bull have sex? Should he masturbate to orgasm?

• What can the husband do in order to avoid a loss of respect for him?

• What should happen after the bull finishes having sex with the hotwife?

• Is the cuckoldry arrangement more or less successful if the husband has sex with his wife immediately after the bull finishes?

• Should the husband expect or ask for gratitude?

• How should the hotwife get her orgasm in order to maximize the chance of a successful arrangement?

• Should the husband give his wife cunnilingus after the bull finishes?

• How does the hotwife’s menstrual cycle affect the success rate of a cuckoldry arrangement?

• Should or must the hotwife have a hunger for sex?

• What (and how much) should the husband tell his wife about bulls? What advantages are persuasive and worth mentioning?

• What about the option of doing full cuckoldry with pregnancy?

• What should the husband say or not say about full cuckoldry?

• When having sex with the hotwife, should the husband and the bull use the same primal mode of sex or different modes for different purposes?

• What type of women are more likely to agree with a man’s cuckoldry fetish?

• How does wealth affect the chances of success? Is wealth almost mandatory or just beneficial? What about gold-diggers?

• What about cheating hotwives?

• What about masochistic hotwives?

• What about sadistic hotwives and BDSM?

• How should a cuckold be realistic in order to avoid failure?

Novelty has a strong effect

Most women are more excited by sex when novelty is involved. I find it exciting and thrilling to have sex with a new man for the first time with him. Therefore, I would find the cuckoldry arrangement more exciting and more enticing if the bull is a different man every time, and I have sex with each bull only once (or several times on the same day, but no second day).

My excitement and arousal would be much weaker if my husband arranges for me to get fucked by the same man many times over the course of a year. Reusing 2-3 bulls would also break the novelty.

The frequency of sex with bulls

If I was fucked by a bull once per week, then this is a high frequency that would ruin my excitement. I estimate that my excitement would be maximized if I was fucked by a bull once per three months. If my cuck-husband wanted it more often, I could agree to being fucked by a bull every second month.

If necessary, I suppose we could trial a frequency of once per month, but I believe that this would be counterproductive. If it happens too often, then it would become habitual and not an exciting novelty anymore. It is important and necessary to maximize the woman’s excitement and arousal as much as possible in order to counteract her dislike of her husband’s cuckoldry fetish.