Sex with alpha males is MUCH better
Evolution is the cause of this.
This article is intended for adult audiences. It covers the following topics:
What women think and feel about sex and love.
The difference between an alpha male and an independent male.
Do alpha males “ruin” women for all other men?
How & why women evolved to feel attracted and repulsed by the different social ranks of men.
The original operation of alpha and beta males in small tribes in ancient history.
How is a woman’s attraction to males affected by the fertile days in her menstrual cycle?
My sexual experiences with beta versus non-beta males, and the differences that I felt.
Are “alpha widows” real?
Can a man be desirable if he is not an alpha? What can he do to be successful with women?
How important is the man’s job in determining whether women can be attracted to him?
Can a man simply choose to be an alpha or a beta?
The dual-mating strategy of X% of women.
How does hormonal contraception change women’s attraction to men?
If I joined a cult and the day arrived when the cult leader told me that our god wants me to have sex with him (as all cult leaders inevitably say at some point), then I am pretty sure that I would enjoy having sex with him more than my husband in the cult.
The reason for this is that the only husbands that join cults are beta males, and my brain definitely feels like it is pre-programmed by thousands of years of evolution to get more much pleasure from sex with alpha males than beta males.
So, let me tell you about how sex and love are experienced from the female perspective. In general, women strongly favor alpha males and independent males over beta males. Now before you get angry at women and become an incel or a misogynist, keep in mind that it is not only women that do this.
The entire human society (including men) dislikes or disrespects beta males. Even beta males dislike other beta males. Nobody truly respects beta males. A beta male even dislikes himself (low self-esteem).
Note that I am actually trying to help people, not be a bitch. Concealing the truth about human sexual behavior hurts many people, whereas openly discussing it leads to solutions and increased satisfaction and happiness.
Before we discuss this topic in detail, we need to clarify the terminology.
🤴🏻 The difference between an alpha male and an independent male
The definition of an alpha male varies. Sometimes people include independent males in the definition of alpha male, and sometimes people view these as separate categories.
An independent male has no beta males serving him. He has nobody above or below him. Examples of independent males include:
A freelancer.
A consultant.
An author.
An architect.
An electrician.
A carpenter.
A lawyer (if not working in a law firm).
Some small business owners.
A man that inherited enough wealth to never need employment.
And others.
A dentist or a medical doctor in his own private practice would be classified as an alpha male, because he employs assistants and/or a receptionist.
In a corporation, the executives are alphas, and the rest of the employees are betas. Although a team leader or a middle-manager has staff members below him, he is not their employer, therefore he is a beta male, albeit a higher-ranked beta male.
The less independent a man is, and the less self-determination he has, and the more subservient and obedient he is, the more of a beta male he is.
🧬 The evolution of female sexual attraction
It is important to understand that most women (or maybe all women) evolved to strongly favor getting fucked and impregnated by an alpha male or an independent male and not a beta male, because beta males had multiple disadvantages on average:
Lower genetic quality (on average), such as reduced health, endurance, and virility.
Less ability to protect a pregnant woman and her children from thieves, murderers, etc.
Fewer resources to support and nourish a family.
Less determination, persistence, ambition, and courage.
Higher prevalence of anxiety disorders including extreme cowardice and fear-induced subservience.
Higher prevalence of masochistic personality disorder.
More likely to sacrifice himself and his own family for the benefit of a powerful man, a wealthy man, an egotistic/narcissistic leader, a warmonger, or a megalomaniac.
In ancient times, humans lived in tribes. A tribe consisted of up to 40 or 50 people led by a strong masculine alpha male. Every woman in the tribe dreamed of being the alpha male’s partner, but this was impossible, because the tribe contained perhaps 10 to 25 women and only one alpha male.
Consequently, women were left with no choice other than to partner with beta males in the tribe. However, they still wished for the alpha male. The alpha male had sex with multiple women in the tribe, and he did not form a monogamous relationship with them, and he did not fall in love with them.
Alternatively, it is possible that some tribes were led by a mated pair consisting of an alpha male and an alpha female (similar to a king and a queen). In this case, the alpha male favored the alpha female and had a relationship with her (and only her), but he still had occasional casual sex with the beta females in the tribe.
Women evolved to get pregnant more easily and more often when having sex with the alpha male than with any beta male. As a result of this evolution, sex with an alpha male is more likely to lead to the woman having an orgasm and desiring more sex with this man. This increases the chance of getting pregnant from alpha males.
In addition, women evolved to feel more strongly attracted to alpha males during the fertile/ovulatory phase of their menstrual cycle, causing fertile women to seek sex with the alpha male on these days, causing an increased probability of getting impregnated by the alpha male.
A woman’s sexual attraction to an alpha male operates without love. The subconscious goal is to get impregnated by a high-quality man regardless of whether he loves her or she loves him.
🔥 My sexual experiences
When I got fucked by an alpha male (actually an independent male) for the first time in my life, it was a mind-blowing experience. I was in ecstasy for multiple reasons: