Men should not give women orgasms

I am glad that no man ever brings me to orgasm during sex.

Men should not give women orgasms

This article is intended for adult audiences.

A lot of women are concerned about their lack of orgasms during sex. Why should this be a problem?

My orgasms are controlled by myself. I dislike the idea of a man having an ability to cause me to orgasm. I am glad that no man can do it. I like having the control over my orgasm, and I want to keep it this way.

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Even if the sex is extraordinarily good, I never orgasm when the man is in the active role doing the man-on-top position or doggy-style position or any position with me in the passive/receptive role. I am not the least bit bothered by this. No disappointment at all.

The only sexual position that brings me to orgasm is the woman-on-top position. Alternatively, I can use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris and get my orgasm after the man finishes getting his orgasm. I am very happy with this arrangement.

Two different types of orgasm

My biggest and best type of orgasm occurs when I get my own orgasm by riding the man energetically (with me in the active role and him in the passive role). It feels like a blended vaginal + clitoral orgasm.

My second-best type of orgasm occurs when I use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris indirectly (nearby). This causes a clitoral orgasm. I orgasm faster if the man plays with my nipples while I move my fingers near my clitoris.

I know that a few male researchers/scientists claim that only one type of female orgasm exists, but they are beyond all doubt wrong, wrong, wrong. I definitely have two different types of orgasm.

I have also discussed this topic with other women. It is a proven fact: Women (or at least many women) have more than one type of orgasm. We can feel the difference. A male scientist must be extremely arrogant and sexist if he insists that he knows better than women about women’s orgasms.

Some women might even be capable of three different types of orgasm. In my case, there are two types.

Some women orgasm during the man-on-top position, but not me. Never.

Was the sex not good enough to orgasm?

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